Counseling with Sara
~ Balance ~ Connection ~ Hope ~
Sara Fender, M.A.
Licensed Professional Counselor
P.O. Box 316
Canby, Oregon 97013
(971) 217-8790
Resources
Here you'll find a growing list of books, links, and videos on a variety topics related to mental and emotional health
** indicates resource is presented from a Christian worldview
Addictions
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Everything You Think You Know About Addiction is Wrong - Johann Hari (video)
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Guide for Children of Addicted Parents (webpage)
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Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration - SAMHSA
Anxiety & Worry
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American Psychological Association- Anxiety
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Rumination: A Problem in Anxiety & Depression (article)
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What is Health Anxiety? (handout)
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Emotional Agility: Susan David, PhD
Depression & Mood
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All the Thing We Never Knew: Chasing the Chaos of Mental Illness (memoir; Bipolar Disorder) - Sheila Hamilton
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Bipolar Disorder - NAMI
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Darkness is My Only Companion (memoir, Bipolar Disorder, Christianity) - Kathryn Greene-McCreight **
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Helping Someone with Bipolar Disorder (article)
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Parent's Guide to Teen Depression (article)
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The Midnight Library (fiction, Depression & Suicidal Ideation, Hope) - Matt Haig
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Reasons to Stay Alive (personal reflections on depression and anxiety) - Matt Haig
Emotions
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Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle (target audience: women) - Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski
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The Dance of Anger - Harriet Lerner, PhD
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The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook - McKay, Wood, & Brantley
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Emotional Agility - Susan David, PhD
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Why am I Always Angry? (article)
General Mental Health Resources
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Getting Started With Mindfulness (webpage)
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Help Guide - online resource by topic for mental health and wellness
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National Alliance on Mental Illness
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The National Institute for Mental Health
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The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
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The New Science of Sleep (article)
Grief & Loss
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A Grief Observed - C.S. Lewis **
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Beyond Closure - Nancy Berns (video)
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The Cure for Sorrow - Jan Richardson **
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Good Mourning: Getting Through Your Grief - Allan Hugh Cole, Jr. **
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It's OK That You're Not OK - Megan Devine
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Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change - Maggie Smith
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Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss - Hope Edelman
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Option B - Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant
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Refuge in Grief (Megan Devine)
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Terrible, Thanks for Asking (podcast)
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We Don't "Move On" From Grief. We Move Forward. - Nora McInerny (video)
Miscellaneous Topics
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Anatomy of the Soul - Curt Thompson, M.D. (neuroscience & spiritual practices) **
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Body Partnership Coaching & Resources - Wirth Wellness
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Damn Shame - Curtis H. Tucker (shame & Christian spirituality) **
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Emotionally Healthy Spirituality - Peter Scazzero **
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Learning to Walk in the Dark - Barbara Brown Taylor **
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One Thousand Gifts - Ann Voskamp (depression, gratitude, joy) **
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The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment (mindfulness) - Eckhart Tolle
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Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist - Margalis Fjelstad
Parenting
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Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain - Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.
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The Five Love Languages of Children - Gary Chapman, PhD & Ross Campbell, M.D. **
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The Gottman Institute (Parents)
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How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk - Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
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Parenting From the Inside Out - Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. & Mary Hartzell, M.Ed.
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Parenting With Love & Logic - Foster Cline, M.D. **
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The Whole Brain Child - Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.
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The Yes Brain - Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. & Tina Payne Bryson
Personal Growth and Well-Being
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Boundaries - Cloud & Townsend **
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Communication - 4 Part Communication Process (web link)
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Emotional Agility - Susan David, PhD
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Getting Started with Mindfulness (article)
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The Gift of Power and Emotional Courage - Susan David, PhD (video)
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The Gifts of Imperfection - Brene Brown, PhD
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Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance - Angela Duckworth
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I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening) - Sarah Stewart Holland & Beth A. Silvers**
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Man's Search for Meaning - Viktor Frankl
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The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook - Kristin Neff, PhD & Christopher Germer, PhD
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Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation - Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.
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The Power of Introverts - Susan Cain (video)
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The Power of Vulnerability - Brene Brown, PhD (video)
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Rising Strong - Brene Brown, PhD
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The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery - Ian Morgan Cron
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Self-Compassion - Kristin Neff
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Self-Esteem - McKay & Fanning
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Set Boundaries, Find Peace: a Guide to Reclaiming Yourself - Nedra Glover Tawwab
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Strengthsfinder 2.0 (CliftonStrengths Assessment) - From Gallup & Tom Rath
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The Wisdom of Your Body - Hillary McBride, PhD
Relationships
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Drama Free: a Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships - Nedra Glover Tawwab
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The Emotionally Absent Mother: a Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed - Jasmin Lee Cori
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The 5 Love Languages - Gary Chapman, PhD **
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The Gottman Institute (Couples)
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Hold Me Tight - Sue Johnson, PhD
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How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk - John Van Epp, PhD
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Navigating High Stakes Relationships and Burnout - Wirth Wellness podcast (I am a guest)
Trauma
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The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma - Bessel Van der Kolk, MD
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The National Center for PTSD
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Trauma Defined (an article outlining a helpful perspective on understanding trauma)
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Why Trauma Survivors Can't Just 'Let It Go' (blog post)
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The Wisdom of Your Body - Hillary McBride, PhD